the 11 sure ways to earn a woman’s trust
ladies have been programmed to have trust issues,so you see how it is necessary for us guys to become deserving of a woman’s unreserved trust.
having said that ; below are tips that will aid you gain your woman's trust 95% starters.
Let
your word be your bond
Always say what you mean and mean
what you say. There might be no better test of your trustworthiness than this.
Don’t
say bad things about your friend
I mean, how is anyone supposed to
trust you when you say terrible things about your own friends behind their
back?
Do not scared to tell her the bad things about you
Don’t you think it’ll be suspicious if all you say when you are talking about yourself are only the good things you can do, or the good things you have done?
Don’t
get defensive when she asks awkward questions
No matter how awkward the situation
and the resultant questions she fires at you, you must realize that all she
wants is reassurance and the best way to grant her that is to answer the
questions as coolly and as honestly as possible.
Getting defensive will only raise
her suspicion, generate more questions in her mind and decrease her trust in
you.
You let her know details of your phone
This is easy. A phone without passwords or one whose password is well known to your lady is one of the easiest, fastest ways to earn her trust.
It suggests that you have nothing to hide from her.
You’re not a disgraceful mess when drunk
I’d say don’t get drunk at all, but of course, this is an attempt at futility.
However, a woman’s trust in you will be heightened if, somehow, you relatively act sensibly when drunk. Simply because the things people say when they are drunk are actually their real tendencies which were subdued during their sober periods.
You act the same around everyone
Your accent does not suddenly change when you are somewhere, you comport yourself the same way every time, everywhere.
You’re trusting
If after all these things you are doing to earn her trust, you refuse to trust her, then you should maybe stop wasting your time because your refusal to trust her will most likely undo all the fine work you have done.
You
keep old friends
If all your close friends are people
you met one year ago, we need to ask you what happened to the friends from way
back.
This might mean that you cut out
people very easily and that does not bode well for the trust a lady might be
hoping to build in you.
You
can ditch a woman for a friend in need
If a friend gives you a distress
call while you while you are maybe on a date with a lady, and you ignore the
call or lied about your whereabouts just to avoid being there for him at that
time, a sensible lady will take note of that as a sign of your unreliability.
I actually wouldn’t blame a woman
who walks out on you right there and then.
I mean, if you can do that to your
friend just to hang out with a babe, what kind of man are you?
You
are good with secrets
If you can restrain yourself and
keep secrets of other people from her when you necessarily have to, she
might not like it, but she will get used to it eventually and in fact come to
respect you for it because, you have shown her that her own secrets are just as
safe with you.
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